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Alex Tower Ewers's avatar

So good!!

Human Potential & Resilience's avatar

this is a terrific list

Roseann Gonzales Ph.D.'s avatar

Thank you for this list. I thrive on giving kids the opportunity to imagine, discover, build and create in this screen filled world. They need that time to explore. Thank you again.

Anthony McInnes's avatar

Yikes, the counting clicker. My house now sounds like I live inside a clock! When there is nothing left to count, why not count the numbers on the clicker itself...fast.

Jacqueline Nesi, PhD's avatar

Okay, yes, this is a risk I had not considered...

Elaina Swartzlander's avatar

Get a usb disco ball for disco baths and dance parties! Spotify “Start a Jam” for far away cousins.

Also, make a Nugget slide and use the nugget under the gymnastics bar! (It’s so versatile). We also LOVE our nugget chunk ( used as a coffee table).

Jacqueline Nesi, PhD's avatar

Such good suggestions, thank you! And funny you say that - one cushion of our nugget is currently under the gymnastics bar, and the other is forming a slide on the stairs...!

Desmo's avatar

My kids are older (12 and 15), but I enjoyed reading the suggestions. It made me think of a things that I will pass along.

If your kids use PlasmaCars like my kids did, don't have them wear new shoes. My kids would drag their feet and get a hole where the big toe is.

A science podcast my kids liked which I was delighted to know it is still around.

Wow in the world. Guy Raz used to be on it. No clue if he still is. Mindy is amazing. Note they do say bonker balls alot and talk about disgusting bodily functions.

An activity we did often was create a city on our driveway using sidewalk chalk. This was great because then they would park their bikes at the coffee shop etc.

These 2 suggestions do indeed have a screen, but it was an exception we would make that kind of didn't count for our screentime.

-Stop motion animation videos. Full on productions with legos or american girl dolls.

-Osmo ipad games. Pizza parlor. You make pizzas and customers pay and then you make change.

Lastly, the best fort making equipment we ever came across is called Antsy Pants. (Sadly I think it is discontinued). If you find any on marketplace or ebay, it might be worth buying.

Love this list and of all days, today the temp is below zero so we have e-learning. This is covid times flashback!

Jacqueline Nesi, PhD's avatar

Amazing suggestions, thank you! (And yes, it makes sense to me now why my kids' shoes are destroyed in the front!)

Kunlun, PhD | Playful Brains's avatar

Thank you Jacqueline for the generosity of this piece — not just in length, but in spirit. What stood out most is how you repeatedly relieved parents of the pressure to perform play, instead offering ideas that invite children into agency and independence.

Screen Less Play More's avatar

So great! I'm definitely saving and sharing this. And thanks for mentioning that it's ok to be bored too!

Mr.Wayne (Marriage Letters)'s avatar

Saving this for sure!

Mariana Trench's avatar

These are great! Saving for the next time I see the grandkids.

The AI Architect's avatar

This list is impressively thorough. The whole "tired parents" framing nails it, especially the balance betwen structured ideas and letting kids actually be bored. Didnt expect the stopwatch tip to work so well but timing everything really does turn mundane stuff into a game, tried it with my nephew and he cleaned up faster than I thought posible.

Jacqueline Nesi, PhD's avatar

Thank you!! Stopwatches are truly miracle-workers

Jaymee Geelan's avatar

Saving and sharing!! So many great ideas to reference!

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landkiper's avatar

This is such an incredible and practical list! Kudos to you for such comprehensive research. As an elementary teacher who is always looking for actionable ways to foster children's creativity, I know exactly how time-consuming this level of curation is—it was truly worth it!

The point you made about 'noticing' the small tasks kids do is absolutely key; it’s exactly what helps build their confidence, not just their tidiness. You've also struck a perfect balance between high-energy activities and quieter play. I’m also on a journey of creating educational content for parents, promoting simple, growth-oriented play.

I would love for you to check out my page as well. As a writer and elementary teacher, I share ideas for play-based learning and supporting the holistic development of children. Thanks again for such a useful post!

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